My podcast is about my journey into the FLR (Female Led Relationship) lifestyle. While my marriage looks mostly normal from the outside, I fully control my husband through the chastity device that I have his "manhood" locked in. Follow along weekly as I bring you up to speed on where we are now, and how an outwardly vanilla life operates alongside a very kinky secret life!
This Episode, I’m diving deep into one of the best blog posts I've ever read about Female-Led Relationships—The Cheese, written by John Dalton on the Dom Think Tank blog.
It’s real, raw, and totally validated a lot of what I’ve lived through in this journey: the struggle, the guilt, the overwhelm, and ultimately… the unbelievable confidence that grows when a woman finally owns her space in a relationship. 💥
In this episode, I break down the highlights of the blog, share how it mirrors my own FLR experiences, and get real about the emotional roller coaster that comes with stepping into your power—especially when you grew up thinking you had to be the caregiver, not the leader.
If you’re new to FLR, if you’re stuck, if you feel like you’re ”doing it wrong,” or if you just need someone to tell you it’s okay to make it all about YOU—this one’s for you.
What You'll Walk Away With:
Why it’s so hard for women to embrace dominance—and why it’s worth it
The real meaning behind “The Cheese” in a new FLR
How submissive men thrive when their Domme finally steps into full confidence
Why society programs women to serve when they should be leading
Practical encouragement for pushing through doubt and building a powerful, lasting FLR
Google-Friendly Questions This Episode Helps Answer:
What is ”The Cheese” in a Female-Led Relationship?
How do I get over guilt about leading my partner?
What is a paradigm shift in an FLR?
How do women become confident Dommes in real life?
What is the difference between sexual dominance and relationship leade
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Also, my psuedo-autobiographical audio drama podcast ”Control” will ”re-debut” this spring as we drop the entire first season exclusively on Patreon!
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